You loser...How are you

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you loser...how are you
no not married..not kids..enjoying life...finishing my graduation in 2 weeks then goin to start workin here in Toronto...
how are you
cp

Subject:Hi from Australia

Hello


Got ur mail. Got to know about ur plans. Good to know that ur thinking about ur life plans.U havent really told about how much deeply both of u r involved in each other.If u both have inormed ur parents then u are almost there.I think that ur the best judge of what ur doing.
But make sure u understand her nature and vice versa. so better try to discuss about ur expectations from the relationship and viceversa. If u think that she is of understanding nature and has got good family values. then go for it. all the best.
Just let me know how much ur involved and committed.
Finally i want to say that just dont go after the beauty and face.
Aroo says hello to u.

Pav

Subject: Fwd: meera/open ur eyes

Its me
May be you are too busy with your job to think about our future:
Somebody else would come to select u based on your:
  • height
  • skin color
  • built
  • dowry ur Dad can give

    When things finalise,
    No body would be there to ask whats going on in ur heart
    Not ur mom
    Not ur dad
    You would be on your own
    Alone
    to marry somebody
    to sleep with somebody
    to spend your life with somebody
    Please stop being a cadaver!
    You cried when your parents took you to surgry guy
    I know u r crying inside
    I know u r butchering yourself
    wake up
    Open ur eyes
    Go cry in ur moms lap
    Tell her wt u want
    Be back til july31
    Main dost bahut achi hoon-aazma ke dekh lena

Subject: Re: meera/tini/teenu/tea/open ur eyes

ok
u cant go against ur parnts
but giv me a logical reason 4 them to say no
they r sayin no 4 housing prob-
which i told u on mahee's engagmnt-we hav a small govt hous-we wl hv to shift or ur dad wd say no-doz ur tayaji live w u-
i repeatedly assured u for hous aftr ur parents visit
my dad assured ur mom
my mom clarified that to u
motis mom assured ur dad 4 that
SO THEY R SAYING NO FOR STH WHICH MY SIDE IS READY TO WORK OUT
they r justified in objecting if my side refuses to work on it
but when im sayin u wl get a hous n stil ur answr is no
thats not a fair game-
thats playing w somebodys feelings
n it hurts
u don wana go against parents fine
but u can say 2 them u wont mary 4 one yr
let them see guys 4 u
u go to see if u want
but don say yes 4 one yr
i wl hav a hous by then
ur mom can c it
n then ther wd b no reason left 4 them to say no
if u still choose to go ahead n marry somebody else
luk down u r walking on my corpse

Subject: don go against ur parents

in my previous mail i told u to tel ur mom ur feelings
coz sitting so far hw do i kno what u hav told ur parents
hw do i kno wts goin on ur sid?
i didnt ask u to go against ur mom
convincing or sharing ur feelings with ur parents dznt mean u r goin against them
n i ws askin u that much
n i ws givin u enuf back up to convince ur parents
n i hav the rit to ask u why NO despite my reassurance 4 house

WHAT THE HELL MAKES U THINK IM ASKIN U TO GO AGAINST UR PARENTS?
i hv always begged(underline begged) n requested u to convince ur parents
i never askd u to run away
im not kidnapin u
i never even properly proposed u
i respect our relation
i respect ur parents
i respect ur parents descision
if u cant respect my feelings
at least dont insult them
at least dont project me as a road side romeo to ur parents
go b an achi beti -
its btwn u n ur family
who m i to interfere

Subject: I wont bother u again

On our first date i told u about the house thing -that its a small one n v wl get a bigger 1-
u said yes -thats why I went ahead with you

When ur parents took u to surgry guy, i told u to go back to ur parents-w folded hands n bent knees-remember?
u came back-u said things r not so negativ-thats why i went ahead w u

when i called u three days aftr ur visit to Shimla-you said u cant go ahead with me-but when I said-if its the house thing-WE CAN SORT IT OUT-you completed the sentence

the day u got ur car-
let me know when its the best time-i wil try to manage here - u said that

when i caled u to giv a last phoncal n askd u to try again-"i wil try"-u said that
(u were lying?)

it was a two sided thing

i care 4 u,
respect ur parents-
i gav u all the support i cud-
i myself cald up ur dad n told him i wana mary u
n assured him bout hous
(he didnt say no-just repeated the year old thing -hame jaldi nahi hai-thora time chahiye-
he said that to mohts mom)
(though he paused after I told him I wana marry you- he must have thought I was drunk-
or was he scared?-he he)
that was max i cud do

n if ur parents still think my side is so schedule casted 2 giv u a comfrtabl lif that they r givin u a heartbreak i don xpect anythn frm them for me

u kno what
life is too short to waste

as far as ur part is concerned,
u took the right descision by being w ur parents
-(coz u got no other choice-hehe)
n u sacrificed ur love to make ur parents happy
thats the greatest gift parents can get frm their daughter
HEY UNCLE N AUNTYJI -U GOT THE GREATEST DAUGHTER ON EARTH
I SALUTE U MEERA
GOD BLESS U !


KAUN YAAD KARTA HAI ,
HICHKIYAAN SAMAJHTEE HAIN
DO JAVAAN DILON KA GHAM,
DOORIYAAN SAMAJHTI HAIN

CHAL NAUGHTY MOTI
JAA AB
CARRY ON W UR LIF
ME WONT BOTHER U AGAIN

delete all my mails

Subject: im back

u love me
u r ready to wait for me
THATS ALL I WAS DYING TO HEAR FROM U ALL THESE DAYS
THANX
i love u
i care for u
i respect ur parents
i wont ask u to go against them
giv me time
give me ur support
i will convince ur parents with ur help
i will marry u
promise
luv u
miss u

Subject: Re: maree/nimi/open ur eyes

u luv me
u r ready to wait for me
thats what i was dyin to hear frm u


i gav u june 30 deadline
though its gone
but i had blind faith in u
i knew u wd respond
i understand ur feelings
every body said u r betraying me
everybody said u r playin games w me
but in my heart,i knew it that world may go upside down but u wont leave me


when u said all that blah blah to my mom, my mom asked me what kind of life partner had i chosen
i still trusted u
i knew its a misundrstanding
all right im selfish-i lov u -i wana b w u-
so i cald ur dad-to ask him for my lov-for ur lov-for our lov-for me-for u-for us
i begged to mots mom
she thankfully agreed to help
but she wanted a proof whether u also lov me or not
she said things can stil b under control if maree tells her whats goin at her side
thats why u were given a message next morning
i dont kno why didnt u call
so my mom got negative
mots mom got negative
n there was no response at all from ur side
i religiously waited for june 30


people said u were using me as a door mat
i went to temples
i went to councillors
i went to church
i went to palmist
i kno how i passed all those days
my fuse was getting short
june 30 came
i kno hw i passed that day
that ws the longest day of my life


im a humanbeing
i xpected some thing positive frm ur side
nothing happened
july 1 came
my fuse blew up
i didnt kno what to do xcepet to part w u
but thankfully now u r back
giv me time buddy
apun pyaar karta tere ko
apun khayaal rakhega tera
apun tere parents ko manaayega
tujh se shaadi karega
if i send u my marriage card
it wd b u weds me
dare u marry some bodyelse
i will kill u
bande ban jo
luv u

Subject: dont leave me

lets not cry over spilt milk now
no rona dhona
all this misunderstanding is happening coz of the communication gap btwn us
once we sit together,all this frustration and anger will melt away



parents said no
all rite we rnt running away
we rnt calling


n more or less u seem to hav accepted ur fate
u seem to b playing an ostrich
u r digging ur neck in sand
shutting ur eyes n dreaming that all wd b well wn u open ur eyes



im a die hard person
i lik to fight till last
so why not help me in patao ur parents
we got nothing more to loose now
zyaada se zyaada manaa hi karenge na

help me -u achi dost n achi beti

Subject: what do u say

wn i met u at mahee's engagement
i was aware of house thing
i told u that
i told u bout the simpl lif i can giv u
u havnt seen my hous -u r rite

but if u luv me
u shud b ready to liv w me anywhere
ye ghar ka lafda beech me kahaan se aa gaya
is that ur luv?

arent u betraying me by refusing to marry me for a bloody house
isnt it cheating
n why do i hav to tell u all this
u rnt a kid
u got no brain of urs?
u got no iner voice
no conscience?
did u take ur parents permission while falling in love with me?

me n u got ur lives entangled w each other right under ur parents noses.
it wasn a crush or infatuation,
it was damn serius luv
n if ur parents r refusing for a thing which my side is ready to work out,
that is an unfair descision
n u shud have the guts to at least question their descision if u cant go against it


im not blaming u or questioning ur feelings for me
all i expect u is to support me in convincing ur parents
u got 2 support me
u got to refuse marriage w anyone else
marrying somone without ur parents consent is goin against ur parents
but to stay unmarried is not going against ur parents

Subject: support me

i told my parents i cant forget u n marry somone else
i didnt go against them
i just told them what i feel
i got money,
i got caring family
but still im not happy without u
i shared my feelings with them
i told them either i marry u or i wont marry
they say ok if ur parents approach properly
i didnt go against them
whom r u afraid of
they r ur own parents
u rnt running away w me
u r obeying what they say
why r u scared of sharing ur feelings with them
u got to support me
i will help u out

Subject: Re: THANX A TON

U ALL R SO SELFISH EITHER B MY PARENTS OR U . ALL R JUST CONCERNED ABT THEMSELF
U BECOME GREAT SAYIN U SACRIFICED N MY PARENTS BECOME GREAT SAYIN THEY R JUST BOTHERED ABT MY FUTURE WOW! I HAVE SUCH A GREAT WELWISHER WHO ALL MAKE ME CRY N SAY WE WANT UR BEST
THANX A LOT TO BOTH OF THEM
THANX FOR ALL U HAVE DONE FOR ME I WILL NEVER B ABLE TO REPAY UR CONCERN N WHT ALL U HAVE DONE FOR ME
THANX A LOT
JUST DONT B BOTHER ABT ME MUJHE AADAT HAI AISE RAHENE KI
U CARRY ON W UR LIFE
MAY U GET A GOOD N SUPPORTIVE( unlike me) LIFE PATNER
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!


look dear
i said i wont bother u again coz of the dog treatment u have been giving me for two months
when i felt i had been banging my head with a stone hearted person,i had no option but to quit


all this is a mix up, a communication gap
once we sit face to face, all this wd b solved
b a gud friend now
promise u wont cry
n u wont let me cry
b happy
n support me
we got nothing to loose by waiting for each other
dare u leave me for a bloody house
i will kill u if u marry sombdyelse
thats a dhamki
mere dil ka tumse hai kehna
tum meri hi rehna
nahi to samjhi! .......................................................

Subject: if u love me as a friend

Hi how are you? How's everybody at home? How's dadaji?
So u love me as a friend. Cool. Then listen-
When we started our relation, you told me about you, I told you about me

You confessed to me some thing bout ur life. Which you hadn't even confessed to your parents.
I accepted that and went ahead with you. That meant given everything else allrite, I was commited to go against my parents and marry u had my parents objected to that.

You told me you are short tempered, not so expressive, you have got many friends. I accepted that and went ahead with you. That meant I was commited to our relation even if my parents objected to it.
When raghav thing happened, I went out of my way and fought with my relatives -for u - for our relation- for our commitment


u never promised to marry me-ya thats right
but u commited to struggle with me given that everything else was ok to ur parents


and u commited to go ahead with meafter accepting the house thing
i asked u to c my hous
i askd u to let me c ur hous (No no - I am not a real estate agent)
u refused for both and went ahead with me
that meant u r commited to our relation whether u had seen it or not
that meant u r commited to support me on house issue even if ur parents object to it given that everything else is allrite
ur parents have seen everything now
they objected to house n everything else is all rite
that means now u shud b commited to support me on that issue

if u love me as a friend,
all rite
i m commited to our friendship
n i wd always b cool frn to u


can i ask u,my beloved friend to fulfill ur commitment to our relation
can i ask my beloved friendto give back my happiness
can i ask my beloved friend to support me on house issue when everything else is ok to ur parents
can i ask my beloved friend to help me fullfill my dreams
can i ask my beloved friend to take me for a lunch to CP
can i ask my friend,who promises to love me forever to give me ur cell no.
can i ask my beloved friend to wait for me till i get a house
can i ask my beloved friend to take me to PVR for a movie
can i ask my most intimate friend to keep in touch with me
can i ask my coolest buddy to have a cold coffe with me at MAYA PALACE
can i ask my naughty one to be positive
can i ask my beloved to give me coke from ur glass
waiting.................

Have you confessed

have u confessed to ur parents v considered each other as life partners?

The dream which will never come true

now u say things r off ur hands
if u r giving my dads call as the reason for things not being in ur hands,
what the hell do u do before my dad called ?-
u just said u cant go ahead w mecoz ur mom thinks i have a small house-
u told me joke of the mellineum doc!
an year back u commit to go ahead w me acceptin the fact that i hav a small house n an year later u refuse point blank on the same issue-
i felt like pulling my hair
come on yaar
your parents r supereme for u-i know that- u need not yell at me n my mom to prove their supremacy
(mere pita mere liye sab kuch hai-akshay khanna -taal)
u cant go against parents- ok thats rite
all i want frm u is to tell ur feelings to them
tell them that u love me n u commited to live w me happily in whatevr hous i keep u n it wd b diffi for u to marry smbody else
write these things on a paper
leave the paper where they can read when u r away
n just pray to god

they r ur parents
they made u what u r today
they r ur best frns n well wishers
share with them ur feelings
just tell them the truth-
give ur supreme effort
ur dad is so sweet-
im sure he wont say no if he knows ur feelings
and telling ur feelings to ur parents never means going against them

it has been so long i have been begging u
i have been crying at ur feet
have some mercy on my tears
u r my first love
i think bout u day n nite
cant sleep
cant eat
im loosing weight
im feelin screwed up
im not torturing me
its happenin
not in my hands
itss happening
i cant control it
dont deny me the pain im goin thru
plz 4giv me i need u lik i do
plz 4giv me i cant stop lovin u
i giv u a dream
one day u wd take the holy bath befor goin to ur in laws
there wd b henna in ur hands
there wd b ladies sangeet
ur parents wd b hiding their tears but still dancing
u wd b the bride
i would be ur groom
vaadiyan mera daaman
raaste meri baahein
jao mere siva tum kahaan jaoge?

Why the Objections

Hi
kaisi ho
when my parents came back aftr ceeing u , they raised objxns that delhi is far, that ur parents r so reluctant
i firmly told them not 2 say no atn least for the New Delhi Shimla thing coz they knew it frm day one-it was an illogical objection
u say ur parents r not sure bout ur well being at such a far place-but they were sure of it till they had come to my shop-ur welfare (became warfare) and the New Delhi-Shimla distance suddenly increased once they reached my home?
u kno what, people laugh at me when i tell them i had told u the house thing year ago n ur parents r objectin to same bloody house an year later
when manav thing happened, i supported u lik hell
hw wd u feel if i had broken up w u without listenin to u
what the hell is this hous thin now
if objxn is small hous- my side is ready for a big hous
if objxn is own house-i hav an own hous-u knew it an year back-but no body is ready to listen
u say u havnt seen my hous=but had seen mahee's- ok u havnt seen my hous
but doz it matter had u seen it or not when i myself told u its small- and an year later ur mom says its small- she hasnt discovered a new thing!

Thanks for pampering the birthday boy

loads of thanx
thanx for pampering the birthdayboy
there was a time when we didnt have to think what time it is to talk or sms
n here we r
now we have to wait for each others bdays to hear frm each other
har ghari badal rahi hai roop zindagi.............
u said if ur parents ever ask u finally what do u want, u will tell them the hot stuff
but madam,if u have such intentions,at least u shud have told me,
at least u cud hav askd me to wait,
all rite if u r not in a position to commit anything
arre baba dost maanti ho,pyar bhi karti ho ,
at least mujhe to apni feelings batao
hak se maango yaar
ek baar bolo to sahi that i shud wait for u
things r very uncertain iknow
but thats my head ache
all thes days i was just dying to hear those few lines frm u
cud hv told these things to saka/monika/mobus mom
i gave u so many clues
anyway
plz b happy

Reaching CP for the Rendezvous

Sitting in the New Delhi's LPG auto, when I saw the auto rickshaw wallah (auto-driver) getting the sneak preview of her waxed legs, I tried to cover her bare knees with my hand, for this was my manliness, of not letting anyone else stare at -what (I thought) I possessed. I felt embarrassed at first, at my act, but she felt comfortable, and even she seemed to have liked it, for she reciprocated by pressing her hand against mine, - the auto wallah still watching- in full public view on the busy streets of New Delhi.
Getting down from the auto, as she seemed to play the pampering boyfriend, asked the auto wallah "kitna hua". The auto wallah still staring at her glossy legs uttered -eighty rupeej. Boldly and confidently, a hundred came out of no where- I could feel the auto wallah trying to touch her hand while accepting the hundred rupee note- "Baaki rakh lo" said she, as she turned away from the autowallah after passing a a smile- as if acknowledging and approving his appreciation of hers.